In a
brief conversation a man
asked a woman he was pursuing the question 'What kind of man are you looking
for? 'She sat quietly
for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking. 'Do you really want to
know?'
Reluctantly,
he said, 'Yes.' She began to expound...
As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do
for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my
household without the help of any man...or woman for
that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'
The
man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She
quickly corrected his thought and stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need
something more.' I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of
life.'
He sat
back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, 'I am
looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need
conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. ‘I am looking
for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually, because I don't need to
be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.I need a man
who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial
burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I
go through as a
woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I am looking for someone who I
can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be
submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem
being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him.
He sat there with a puzzled look
on his face. He said, 'You're asking "A Lot " She
replied....................... "I’m worth A Lot
"........
Source: www.womeninspiringwomen.net
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